why????

seriously i think this one girl im trying to help is retarded. i mean i told her being a military spouse is all well and good but u should stop chasing boys and get ur ass in school because if u do marry a military man there job comes first and ur dreams and goals will get postponed and then if u get married and decide to have child things are gonna be twice as hard so why not figure that shit out before ur married it makes sense to me but then again i must be retarded or something.